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 in response to littlefoot1...   Thank you~ so frusterating with everything and her father is so bitter about the divorce still he puts all the blame on me right in front of her. She has told everyone that shell never forgive me because i split up her family and ruined her life. I guess of her hearing that from her dad for almost 2 years, I don't blame her for being upset with me either. Just wish her dad would except the divorce & not use the kids to get even with me by telling them the stuff he does. We both failed in the marriage, it obviously wasn't mean to be. It will get better, god only puts on us what we can handle. As far as the money issue, just would be nice if i knew what to do with the car with no credit. Very frustrating on top of everything but will figure something out eventually. Thanks for the talk

Im in desperate need~ Please help, Im completely lost in what to do & would appreciate any help i may get. I am a divorced mother of 2. I have a car that is in my name and i am paying 18% interest, due to consolidating medical bills from when I had my youngest that is now 2, due to diffucultlies. I still owe $18,000 on a car that is worth $8,000. I am financially stressed and living paycheck to paycheck and still cant afford my bills. I am behind in daycare or my youngest, and everyday bills & now have a 8 year old that has completely turned on me for her dad putting the blame on the divorce on me. I was in a verbal abusive relationship with my husband that went over seas 5 years ago and came home a completely different person, I had no choice but to leave, to make a better life for my daughters and I. My daughter is now getting mental help from a behavior center because she has her fathers anger, exciety, depression state of mind. She hits, punches, screams, cries and throws tantrums. I am trying my best in helping her get better and understand the divorce but seriously am so strained financially and with her problem. I would appreciate any help i can get and would be grateful forever. I don't know what to do anymore with this car i cannot afford anything anymore and am sick....just want my daughter to get better so we can start a new life and be happy again. Please please help me in any way someone can=(